Dirc van Delf
Moses Receives the Ten Commandments
Love Dictates Us to Love
Paris, October 24, 2014 (Zenit.org) Monsignor Francesco Follo
1) The total Love.
Jesus lived among men, and He, the Emmanuel, stays just because He loves us. To realize this love and live it we must first of all be humble. The humble person, like a child, feels “instinctively” the ones who love him, trusts them, and is happy when they come. Even his face is transformed by the joy and shows sadness when they leave. The humble people, listen to Christ because they understand that He came for them to bring the joyful good news of God’s Love. Nobody had talked to them like He did. Nobody had shown so much love for them.
When Jesus had finished speaking, the elderly, the Pharisees, the men who could read and earn, shook their heads as ill omen, got up grimacing and winking to each other annoyed and outraged, muttering a cautious disapproval.
But no one laughed for fear of the last ones: the Poor, the Shepherds, the Farmers, the Blacksmiths, the Fishermen, the Lepers, in short, the Rejected. They could not take their eyes off Jesus. They would have liked him to continue speaking, because a solace of light was (and is) coming from His wise words of love.
Jesus tells these words of love also to those who interrogate him, even if they do it to test him. To the doctor of the Law that asks, “Teacher, in the Law, which is the greatest commandment?” Jesus gives a simple and effective answer and quotes two verses from the Torah, the document that encloses the experience of Israel. He reminds us that only by loving God with all ourselves we will be able to truly love others, because we would love them with the same love of God. Christ insists that our heart, soul and mind are attracted by God’s eternal love, and also tells us that between the two ancient and well-known commands, the second is similar to the first. The neighbor then becomes similar to God, and has voice and heart “similar” to God. God does not reserve the space in our hearts only for Him, but amplifies it and makes us capable of loving fully our neighbor: the wife, the husband, the children, the friends, the brothers and the sisters of the community.
To the wise man of the Law Jesus responds like a wise man of the heart. He knows that a creature needs a lot of love to live well. He offers his Gospel as a way to fullness and happiness in this life. “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your mind” (Mt 22, 37). We find this sentence three times in the Gospel of Matthew, four times in the one of Mark who adds “with all your strength” (Mk 12, 30). Jesus says that the only measure of love is to love without measure. If we love God without half-measures, the heart is capable of loving our family, our friends and ourselves. God is not jealous, he does not steal our heart but he multiplies it. Fullness does not mean exclusivity, then:
– With all your heart: Jesus does not speak of the “heart” with the meaning that today we would give to this word. He uses it in the biblical sense, as a term that expresses the deepest reality of the human being. “To love God with all your heart” means to turn one’s whole being and his or her actions towards God, in a burst of love.
– “With all your soul,” which means life, our “intimate space” inhabited by God. “Love is the wing that God gave to the soul to rise up to him” (Michelangelo Buonarroti ). The one who loves with the soul, sees better with his or her eyes and his or her love is pure.
– With all your mind, which includes thoughts and intelligence. Love makes cleverer, able to understand better and to go deeper and farther.
– With all your strength, which means the set of all energies. Love makes us strong and able to face any obstacle and effort.
2) Two characteristics of true love: gratitude and gratuity.
In the Gospel of Matthew, that the liturgy offers today, we find Jesus dealing with the Pharisees, who lived in the temptation to reduce moral to a set of rules, worrying about external appearance. The response of the Messiah is simple and effective. He quotes two verses from the Old Testament, the Torah, which encloses the experience of Israel, reminding us that only by loving God with all of ourselves we will be able to truly love our neighbor, because we will love him with the same love of God.
Where to start to love? From letting us be loved by Him, who enters and expands the walls of the small vessel that is each one of us. We are the loved who become lovers of Christ. The result, as seen in a loving couple in which one loves what the other loves, is that we love what Christ loves. And not only that; we must love as He loves.
We must live Christ as the model of our lives. And what does it mean that Christ is the ideal of our life? He is the model for the way we treat people, the way we live affection and the way we understand life and look at things and people and the way in which we live the relationships in our family, in the parish community and in the workplace. Christ as the model of life has two characteristics that are not the only ones, but today I want to stress these: gratitude and gratuity.
A grateful heart is always a faithful heart and the ability to be grateful and to say “thank you” is, I think, the sign of Christian maturity.
There are moments in life – I believe for everyone- in which one already here on earth experiences ‘paradise’, the true greatness and beauty of man. It is when we feel loved by someone else (mom, dad, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, and husband). It is an experience of love, the true one, the one of the heart, which I have no doubt to compare to a ‘taste’ of Paradise and to say that the best way to enjoy it is to say “Thank you” recognizing that we are not the makers but that everything that is given to us. Gratitude then inserts in us gratuity: we love without thinking of being loved. We look to the Other and to the others, as the Virgin Mary looks to Christ, not because He belongs to her but because He is there.
This is the absolute purity. Let us humbly make the effort to put ourselves in this absolute purity. It is a gratuity of purity that makes life incorruptible. In gratuitousness the human relationship is not null and void because with Christ and in Christ we are not together for interest, calculation or profit, but by faith and love.
Of course, the love of God is the greatest and the first: the primacy of God is affirmed without hesitation. Love for others comes second. In saying, however, that “the second is like the first,” Jesus states that between the two feelings there is a very close relationship.
Surely there is a different measure: the love of God is “with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind.” The love of man is “like yourselves.” Totality belongs only to the Lord: He alone is to be worshiped. But to belong to Lord cannot be without love for humanity. These are not two parallel commandments simply pushed together. It is not even enough to say that the second is based on the first. It is much more: the second realizes the first.
We can see an example of how to live these two commandments in the consecrated Virgins in the world. Their lifestyle is to start from their consecration to God and to speak always of God primarily with the testimony of their life. These women show that God must always be put first, and that man is made for God. This is what should never be forgotten, even where poverty and injustice are big and where society tends to build the world without God. This way of doing is always against humanity. These consecrated people live life as a mission, and with the grace of God show that it is possible to love chastely, to forgive fully and to serve joyfully and freely. In them the heart took the lead, but it is the Heart of Christ.
Patristic Reading – John Chrysostom – Homily LXXI on Matthew 22, 34 26
“But when the Pharisees had heard that He had put the Sadducees to silence, they were gathered together; and one of them, which was a lawyer, asked Him a question, tempting Him, and saying, Master, which is the great commandment in the law?”
Again doth the evangelist express the cause, for which they ought to have held their peace, and marks their boldness by this also. How and in what way? Because when those others were put to silence, these again assail Him. For when they ought even for this to hold their peace, they strive to urge further their former endeavours, and put forward the lawyer, not desiring to learn, but making a trial of Him, and ask, “What is the first commandment?”
For since the first commandment was this, “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God,” thinking that He would afford them some handle, as though He would amend it, for the sake of showing that Himself too was God, they propose the question. What then saith Christ? Indicating from what they were led to this; from having no charity, from pining with envy. from being seized by jealousy, He saith, “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto this:Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.”
But wherefore “like unto this?” Because this makes the way for that, and by it is again established; “For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light;’ and again, “The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God.” And what in conssequence of this? “They are corrupt, and become abminable in their ways.” And again, “The love of money is the root of all evils; which while some coveted after they have erred from the faith; “ and, “He that loveth me, will keep my commandment.”
But His commandments, and the sum of them, are, “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God, and thy neighbor as thyself.” If therefore to love God is to love one’s neighbor, “For if thou lovest me,” He saith, “O Peter, feed my sheep,” but to love one’s neighbor worketh a keeping of the commandments, with reason doth He say, “On these hang all the law and the prophets.”
So therefore what He did before, this He doth here also. I mean, that both there, when asked about the manner of the resurrection, He also taught a resurrection, instructing “For charity envieth not.” By this He shows Himself to be submissive both to the law and to the prophets.
But wherefore doth Matthew say that he asked, tempting Him, but Mark the contrary? “For when Jesus,” he saith, “saw that he answered discretly, He said unto him, Thou art not far from the kingdom of God.”